stickershop said:
Making offers to circumvent other people's efforts to buy an item is not just unique to ebay. It happens all the time. Ebay can whine all they want about fees and whatnot...but listing on ebay is never free and they won't provide you with any helpful customer service to earn the money they charge. They charge you a fee to list...then a percentage fee when it sells...and then they charge you a percentage fee of the paypal payment that's sent to you. In the end, you can end up paying 10% or more of your final sale price to ebay.
Yeah, but on eBay you're selling the item via an auction...when you don't let the auction run it's entire course, you're screwing over all the people who are bidding on your item. I don't really know why people end auctions early anyway, because auctions are the PERFECT way to ensure that you get the most money possible, since people are making offers, seeing the offers of others, and making higher and higher offers in response...perfect way to drive up the selling price.
Sure, eBay charges fees, but you're perfectly aware of that when you list the item. Now, to be honest, I don't feel sorry for eBay when people end auctions early...they're doing fine -- although you ARE cheating them and taking advantage of them (now sure, they probably cheat and take advantage too). I DO, however, feel sorry for the people who are trying to win items fair and square when greedy sellers end auctions early just to save themselves a few bucks in fees. I've watched items for days hoping to win them, just to have the seller cancel the auction early.
Little did the guy know that I was willing to pay whatever I had to in order to win it...but there really should be stiffer penalties for cancelling auctions. When you start an auction, you make a commitment to selling that item to the highest bidder. The seller even has things like reserve prices, "Buy It Now" prices, etc. at his disposal -- to ensure that the item isn't sold for a cent less than the seller wants it to, and to sell an item quickly for a predetermined amount, plus, he can name his starting bid...so really, if a seller is smart enough to set up the auction correctly, there's no reason for a seller to freak out and think he's not going to get the amount he wants.
I guess maybe I'm old fashioned, but I certainly don't end auctions early for any offer...if somebody has the money and wants to spend it, they can bid and wait and see if anybody wants it more than they do, or if their offer holds up and they win. I really think it's totally unfair to all the other people that are trying to win an item to end the auction and hand it to someone who hasn't even bid...so I'm not going to end them myself, and I'm not going to make offers for other people to end their auctions.
I didn't know my respect for the auction process was so rare, haha. Selling stuff on the side like that is pretty ****ty, I personally wouldn't be able to do it in good conscience.